Wifespeaks CT10: Ex-cuse Me

Here are five scenarios. What would you do?

Scene 1: You were walking at the mall, minding your own business, when you suddenly bump into your ex (as in ex-boyfriend!). Then he invites you for coffee or drinks. What do you do?
-- I'll pass. Sure it is nice to catch up. But to catch up for what? How many kids have you made? Talk if you are happily married? There is a reason he is called an Ex. Ex is a prefix meaning "out of". So he should be out of your life. For good. (Well, eto ay opinion ko when I asked myself what if it's the other way around? Meaning si hubby maka-banga kay ex? Hindi ako selosa, pero cup of coffee? Duhhhh! Hindi pwede! :p

Scene 2: Your husband is super insecure with your ex. What do you do?
--Steer clear away from the ex. Burn everything that would remind me of the ex. Do everything it takes to make hubby feel secure. He is my husband and I have the responsibility to make him happy and feel secure.

Scene 3: You are currently not happy with your marriage. Then, out of nowhere, your phone rings and it’s your ex-boyfriend/first love. He says hi, asks you how you are, and makes small talk. After a while, he gets to the crux of the matter and asks you to leave your husband for him. What would you do?
--There's a reason why that EX is called an EX. It means that during the time that we were together, there was something in the relationship that didn't go right. So why would I go back together with him? If I am not happy with my husband (that is after trying to make things work out and tried to be happy again, and it failed), I will leave him for the reason that I am not happy anymore and not because of another guy. I don't think that EX will make me happy. It will just make me guilty on the inside and a slut on the outside.

Scene 4: Your ex asks you to be the godmother of his new baby.
-- I will accept it. A Godparents' responsibility is to bring the child up in the Christian faith and to insure the child's religious growth after the Baptism. If I decline it, it's just like declining to be God's instrument for the child to know Him. I am not saying his father/mother couldn't do that, but if they don't have issues with me being their child's godmother, then why would I have issues about it.

Scene 5: Your ex is Rustom Padilla.
-- Kukuha ako sa kanya ng beauty at fashion tips! But I'll tell him to just pleassssseee drop the Bebe Gandanghari name! Naman! Naman!

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