What's next? What happened the morning after that most beautiful day in your life? And then, how about the many mornings after?
What is the reality of marriage for you and your husband? Looking back, what is the difference between now that you’re married compared to when you were still single, particularly your relationship with your man? Did marriage really change both of you in some ways?
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Okay, what changed exactly? Here's a few that I can think of at the moment.
Nawala na pagpapa-cute. I can directly tell him now na "Sunduin mo ako at wag ka male-late!" Hindi katulad dati, patweetums pa na "Oks lang. Sige take your time. Antay lang ako dito." At ngayon diretsahan na rin nya sinasabi na "Mag-commute ka na lang." at hindi na "Try ko kung makatakas sa boss ko. Pagnakatakas ako sunduin kita."
Dati, unahan sa pagawa. Ngayon unahan na sa pag-utos! Ahehehe.
Then there's the big S. Oh wag na magpaka inosente, alam nyo kung ano ang S. I don't have to spell it out! Less of it. Not that I am complaining. It just means that we have more (not exactly better) things to do now. Or siguro, mas masarap lang talaga pag bawal. Mwehehehe. :p
Mas nag mature kame. (Magkaron ka ba naman ng dalawang batang palalakihin kundi ka mag-mature e ewan ko na lang. hehe)
Yes, it changed! A little bit for the better, a little bit for the worse. But I think change is good. Just imagine if nothing changes, then there won't be any more challenge in the relationship and it'll become boring. And boring is definitely not a good word to start with.
So newlyweds, embrace change! It'll do more good than bad, just learn how to possitively handle it. =)
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